How do I get him to perform foreplay?
November 13, 2007 by Al Link
Filed under Questions and Answers
"My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years and have never made love. He believes in no sex before marriage. How do I get him to perform foreplay?"
Answer:
You must convince him that foreplay, including kissing, hugging, and sensual touching such as massage is not intended to lead on to sexual intercourse or genital touching. This type of intimate contact is what we call sensual nutrition and it is very important in maintaining optimal health and wellbeing.
Most of us are in state of severe touch deprivation, at least partly because there is so much fear associated with sex. Many can’t seem to differentiate between sensual nutrition (a normal, healthy, desirable, even necessary form of touching), and sexual touching.
Most of us are in state of severe touch deprivation, at least partly because there is so much fear associated with sex. Many can’t seem to differentiate between sensual nutrition (a normal, healthy, desirable, even necessary form of touching), and sexual touching.
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