While my boyfriend gives me oral pleasure, my muscles (down there) tighten increasingly until I can't stand it any longer. They release, I feel a sort of 'shiver' and lots of fluids come out. It feels great. I then feel a tingling sensation (that isn’t very pleasurable) and so we have to stop. Is it an orgasm? Why does it feel like this afterwards?

Answer:

Yes Heather, you're having an orgasm. Orgasms come in many forms, especially for women. They range from little "shivers" to full-blown body-wracking quakes. You can learn to have many types of orgasms and have many of them.

Lots of women experience the same oversensitivity in their clitoris after having an orgasm that you've described. You can learn to go from one orgasm to another, without having to stop, if you try this simple practice. When your boyfriend is licking your clitoris and you have an orgasm, ask him to stop stimulating you while you're orgasming, but to keep his tongue in contact with your clitoris and to keep it still. After your 'shivering' stops, relax your body and breathe deeply. Then, he starts to lick your clitoris again–gently. The most important point is that he does not break the contact between his tongue and your clitoris. In this way you can learn to go on to a series of orgasms. You can also try this with self-pleasuring (with your own fingers) or with your partner stimulating you with his hands.

If you want to learn how to have really amazing orgasms of many kinds, our ebook "Awakening Women's Orgasm" will show you the way! You can check it out at our website: http://www.tantra-sex.com/womenorgasm.html

 

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