Loose your imagination to create a vision of the kind of relationship you want.  As you construct your vision, identify and focus on qualities of your relationship rather than characteristics of your partner. For instance, “I want a relationship that is full of laughter, honesty, and sensuality” rather than “I want a partner who is funny, truthful, and sexy,” or “I want a relationship that is financially strong” rather than “I want a rich spouse.” Qualities of a relationship are much larger and more encompassing than either partner’s individual traits. Your partner does not make it happen for you—you are both responsible for creating a well-balanced union.

 

Although creating and focusing on a relationship vision is a powerful way to unleash your Mind Freedom, remember that you must also act. Ensure that your actions support your vision, bringing you closer to what you want rather than erecting obstacles to keep you from it. Saying yes to a relationship implies that you will take responsibility to learn, to grow, to change, and to act in spite of emotional discomfort.  With such conscious intention, your relationship becomes a crucible for confronting all of your personal/spiritual growth quandaries. Your issues come to the fore so that you can work through them to healing and freedom. This is essential if you are to become fit for a relationship and to have the happiness you desire. Resist laziness and reluctance, and get busy.