Woman on Top – “Tender Surrender” (variation – lying face to face)

 “She climbs upon you, the flowers dropping from her tousled hair, her giggles turning to gasps; every time she bends to kiss your lips her nipples pierce your chest.” Love Teachings of Kama Sutra, by Vatsyayana, translated by Indra Sinha

Both men and women may have difficulty opening their hearts and allowing themselves to be emotionally vulnerable and transparent, but heart opening seems most challenging for men. In this woman-on-top position the man must surrender to his lady, making himself vulnerable to her. Once you understand that control is the enemy of ecstasy, you may begin to appreciate the benefits of complete surrender to one another in lovemaking.

When the lady is on top, she gives more energy than she takes. This is particularly beneficial if the man is recovering from an illness or injury or is in need of rest. In the variation shown here, the lovers are able to harmonize their breath while they gaze lovingly into each other’s eyes. A combination of harmonized breathing and eye gazing is one of the easiest ways for lovers to circulate their hot sexual energy. This position is also very effective when the lingam is large and the yoni is small as the lady is in charge of penetration and thrusting.

Al Link and Pala Copeland

This position is excerpted from our eBook “Tantra and Kama Sutra Sex Positions”

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