I have a doubt regarding sex with my husband

I have a doubt regarding sex with my husband. Is it true that when couples participate in sex for the first time there will be bleeding? I have participated with my husband and I didn’t get any bleeding, but had severe pain.

ANSWER

Thanks for your question. Although bleeding during first-time intercourse has generally been taken as a sign of virginity, many virgins DO NOT bleed the first time they have intercourse.

The hymen, the very thin membrane of tissue that blocks the vagina, can be broken many, many other ways. For instance, through strenuous exercise, through insertion of tampons, through doctor’s explorations, by inserting anything in the vagina – a finger for example during foreplay of lovemaking. So neither you nor your husband should be concerned that you did not bleed.

The pain you experienced is not unusual either, but you don’t have to have pain with sex. In fact you can have a great deal of pleasure. Pain can be caused for a number of reasons: your husband’s penis might be much larger than your vagina; you could have an infection of some kind; but the most common cause of painful intercourse is that the woman is not ready for it.  In order for the vagina to be ready for penetration, to be very wet with natural lubricants and expanded and relaxed, a woman must be highly aroused. She must be very sexually excited. This generally means she needs lots of foreplay: kissing, caressing, stroking all over her body, words of love and endearment, some external genital stimulation (with mouth or fingers).

You can get some tips for sexual pleasure for women from this free article “Freeing the Female Orgasm”.

And our ebook ( Awakening Women’s Orgasm ~ $9.95) gives you lots and lots of details.

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