I hope it’s no health problem

It was great to know that such a wonderful organization exists (Sexy Spiritual Relationships Membership). It’s really helpful for couples. I really liked your website and am planning to become a member. I have a query. While having sex for the first time with my man, he started bleeding too much. When I asked him he said men bleed for the first time like women. Also that he might have got his organ’s skin pulled down too hard so he was bleeding. After a week when we had sex again, everything was fine. He didn’t bleed. Is it alright for a man bleeding so much while having sex for the first time? I hope it’s no health problem. I’m worried. We are planning to get married. Please help. Can I get reply sent on my email? Also do you have a centre where couples can come and enroll and have practical experience of learning?

ANSWER

Bleeding as you describe is not normal for a man. He must have somehow been injured during the lovemaking, or an existing injury may have been re-opened. It is probably not anything to worry about assuming it healed and did not return during subsequent times of lovemaking. If it does return, I advise you to stop lovemaking, then carefully inspect the penis to determine the exact location of the bleeding. It should be apparent if the source of the bleeding is an exterior wound or tear in the skin. If that is the case clean the wound and apply some disinfectant to avoid complications during healing. Delay further lovemaking until the wound is completely healed. If you can determine what actions during your lovemaking caused the injury, stop doing that. If you determine the bleeding is from inside the penis, i.e., the blood is secreted from the urethra (where urine normally comes out), then that would be serious and he should consult a physician immediately for diagnosis and treatment.

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